In an ideal world, of course, relationships would be easy. You'd find someone, fall in love with each other, and POW! - the "happily ever after" of fairytales comes true. (The clue why they don't is in the word "fairytales", FYI...)

So you see love as a "collaborative work of art". You've been discerning about who to spend your time with and found someone generous and giving, someone with whom you can be your truest self. You've won! Here's your medal! You can relax now!